Item 5 in Ten Commandments

Honour Father and Mother

Treat parents with honour and recognise responsibilities arising from family relationships.

Position
5
Form
Positive duty or instruction
Obligation
Mandatory
Wording status
Editorial paraphrase
Intended audience
Originally Israel; subsequently interpreted within Jewish and Christian traditions
Last reviewed
28 June 2026

Names and terminology

Canonical name: Honour Father and Mother

Source wording

Editorial paraphrase: Treat parents with honour and recognise responsibilities arising from family relationships.

Editorial paraphrase

Literal meaning

Treat parents with honour and recognise responsibilities arising from family relationships.

Broader interpretation

The principle does not by itself settle conflicts involving abusive parents, unjust authority or competing duties.

Ethical purpose

To shape conduct or character in a way consistent with the wider ethical framework.

Modern application

Modern application requires attention to consent, rights, evidence, foreseeable harm and changing social conditions.

Criticism and difficult cases

Application can become difficult when this principle conflicts with another duty, when harm is indirect, or when ancient social assumptions do not fit modern conditions.

Truth By Reason analysis

Truth By Reason assesses this principle according to evidence, rights, intentions, foreseeable consequences and consistency with the treatment of all affected beings.

Ethical themes

  • Care and neglect
  • Family duties

Sources